The Emotional Development of You Child

The study of the emotional development of infants and children although relatively new questions the idea as to whether they are learned, predetermined or a combination of both in determining a child's emotional experiences, behavior and personality. Emotional development can be defined as the process of building self-esteem, self-awareness and self-confidence as well as recognizing and understanding various feelings and emotions.

A child's emotional development begins at infancy and grows through stages. Because children differ in growth and development there is no set formula that can be followed. However. parents can recognize their child's emotional development and respond through positive interaction. For instance, infants between six to twelve weeks typically smile and makes cooing sounds in response to a parents smile and joyful play.

A toddler has a sense of self-awareness, they begin to recognize that those around him or her have thoughts and feelings that differ from theirs which helps them in the development of empathy. As a toddlers language develops they will express empathy by using comforting words or through endearing physical contact, a hand on the shoulder, a pat on the back or a hug.

Preschoolers begin to regulate their emotional behavior as their emotional development continues to advance. They begin to adjust or alter their emotional expressions, attitude, tone of voice and facial expression as well as internalize various emotions.

By the time your child is ready for school they have developed a greater understanding of their emotions and the emotions of others. Through life experiences they begin understand the causes and consequences of emotions as well as develop their own theories of why or how others experience various emotions.

Studies show that educational toys can be a great asset to the emotional development of children. Their unique design will benefit your infant to six year old especially in the areas of relationship building, working through challenges and problem solving, which can build self-confidence and self-esteem.

Parents are the key to their child's emotional development. No matter if you have one child, six children or more, all children need a sense of comfort, safety, love, confidence and encouragement. Teach your children how to build strong positive relationships, help them to develop empathy, compassion as well as a sense of right and wrong. Show them how to solve problems and deal with challenges in a positive manner and most important, encourage, encourage, encourage.